Monday, April 14, 2014

Everyone Has A Story; What's Your Story?

Everyone has a story. What does that mean? It means that we all have lived some type of life. Good or bad, happy,or sad. Everyone has something to offer someone. That one small piece of information you share? Well, it can make all the difference in someone's day. How they think, react, respond. What's your story? My husbands story is not unique. His story is real! He's not ready to publicly place it on my YouTube, but he has given me permission to write about his story with Evolv. For anyone that is a recovering, or trying to recover from alcohol, drugs, depression. He is asking that you read his story. 

My husband was taking pain killers, anti-depressants and anti-anxiety meds. His daily schedule was getting up in the AM, taking a pain pill, an anti-anxiety med, and his antidepressant. He admits he is an introvert, yet on the outside you wouldn't know it. He puts up a great front. As he explained. He doesn't have to feel this way anymore. So why is he telling his story now? He hopes it can save just one person. 

He took pain meds to get up. He took anti-anxiety meds to be able to socialize. He took anti-depressants to control the anger deep within. He drank daily, and our marriage was on the verge of being over. 

He begged me one evening after work to make it all stop. He begged me to not leave, and that he didn't want to be this way anymore. He said, baby, I know all the battles with your health. He said, baby, if you can rid all 9 meds but 2. Please be honest with me dear. He asked me point blank. Are you forcing yourself, or is the Evolv products really working for you. I told him the truth. They really work! I'm not in excruciating pain to require 3 Oxy's a day. I feel great with my Evolv program. Do I have my days? Yes dear, I have those days. Yet I push through it, take another Limitless if I need it, and I don't grab an Oxy anymore. If it's getting out of control? Yes, I will take one. That's what it is meant for. 

The weather is not normal for this time of year. We have days where there are some difficult patches. It's a commitment to ourselves to reach for a Limitless if we are in pain, and/or having anxiety issues. I will take that before I reach for a pain pill. I will drink an Activate ATP or a FIX. Before reaching for that pain pill. He said baby, why do you do this to yourself. Wouldn't it just be simpler to take the pain pills? Sure! If I want to keep tearing my insides up. Placing into my body, all those chemicals. I don't want that anymore. He said, is that why you stripped the fridge and cubards to gluten free, all organic? Yes it is. Eating cleaner and healthier, don't you feel better babe? He said yes, I have. That's why I'm ready to join you and do this. He said, I'm jealous of all the energy you have. He said, you run after the kids all day, you clean the house and keep it up. He said, I really just thought you were pushing yourself and too hard to prove a point. No, I'm literally full of energy and there is no craving to dround in my issues. As I explained to him, it's a commitment I was willing to make and it's one you should try too. 

He said babe. I want to quit too. He said I want to start the Evolv program, and please move forward. I told him only if he was serious. We prayed and he asked for strength as we take this journey. 

He started and did well for about a week. He felt it was too much to remember daily, while working 12-16 hours a day. He said he felt overwhelmed. I stopped everything, and we prayed for strength and we asked for guidance to show my husband a better outlook. 

Today, my husband is no longer on anti-anxiety meds, no anti-depressants, no prescription pain pills! No drinking a six pack before bed. It's all stopped! Do we casually go out and have a drink? Yes! Our attitudes are totally different. Our outlook on our lives has completely changed. We work together, and we discuss how we feel every day. It's like getting to know each other again. 

He has increased his stamina to work each day 12-16 hours a day. He says he feels better than he has ever felt, and he truly loves the way he feels. He was telling me how he is ready to get up every day and that's only the beginning. He states and describes the feeling of knowing he can get up, feel good, and know he can take on the day. his He says, with Limitless he is able to move and work without pain. He says he feels more comfortable to speak to others that he works with more than he has in 3 years of being with his company. He drinks 6 bottles of water a day. That includes 2 Activate ATP's, and 2 FIX. He says he can feel the All Natural energy vs the Monsters and Red Bulls he use to drink. He explains how they would start his heart to race. So he would find something to do to work that out. He states that now, he doesn't have to do that. He says he works hard, but it's just an over all Natural process for him. He says that when it starts to be stressful and overwhelming, he drinks a FiX, and he has that calmness that he just cannot place a finger on yet. 

He's happier than ever. He's more attentive to our needs, wants and desires. He's more willing to go out, and have some fun. Normally, he would have came home, drank his beer, and passed out by 8pm. Now he is staying up to spend quality time with not only me. He's spending time with the kids. We are going out as a family and focusing on that day, at that time. 

As he states. "I was addicted to the meds. Pain meds, Anti-Anxiety meds, and my Antidepressants." "I know now that I don't have to drink, and take those meds to be able to love life." "I live now eating better, taking the Evolv program, and I'm not afraid to speak up when necessary." 

I've never been more proud of my husband. He's shown me that he cares about himself, me and my kids. As he says. He loves his job. He loves himself more. I asked him what he wants people to know? He says, "I want them to know that with Evolv, there is no reason to desire to go back to the way my life was." As he smiles and gives me a hug, and a Kiss. 

I'm truly a lucky woman. I've been married 2 times. This is my third. He is my best friend. My everything. He truly works for his family. That would be me, and the kids. He's not grouchy every day. He's not yelling at everyone between work and home. As he says, "I just want to help someone else." 

I've given him a wonderful opportunity to live, love and laugh again. What more could I ask for. Nothing! He's a much better man without alcohol, pain killers, anti-anxiety and antidepressants. He's always been a giving man. His worth shows, and he's always smiling and laughing now. I'm here! Here to help you! 

If any of these issues are in your life. Call me, and let us help you. He's taking an active roll in Evolv. He wants to help other people Evolv. Are you ready to accept help? Guidance, one-on-one training, and healthy results in the end. Is this YOU? It takes commitment, and desire. You can too, get off pills, alcohol that is uncontrolled. Make the determination to commit to something. Why not Evolv?

Are Purpose & Motivation The Same In Terms?

On April 11th, we blogged about What's Your Motivator. Over 50+ or you read our blog. Today I want to review Purpose. Why Purpose? If you have Motivation, You have Purpose. Definitions of Motivation and Purpose. 

Motivation: Something that motivates; an inducement or incentive.

Purpose: The object toward which one strives or for which something exists; an aim or a goal: 

There are so many reasons why we get up and go to work. We go because we have to pay rent, electric, food, gas, etc.. That's if you are single. Those are the basics to start. Then we have a partner. When we love someone, we have lost the desire for ourselves, and changed it to US. So now your Pupose is about the protection to the two of you. One person always accepts responsibility to the house. Yet it should be an equal effort correct? Both should take ownership. Not always can this be the case. You accept that person for who they are. They have strong points, as you. Weak points, as you. 

We then come to either your single or your united with someone. If your single, you still are struggling inside with something. Most the time. It's that your not feeling completed. You want more. What is your Pupose to Motivaton? Work is old, it's everyday. Yes, we all have Stress with work. Yet we have some type of something that hits us about the day. Maybe it was how you helped someone, and that gave you a great sense of gratification. Maybe you bonused today, and your thinking about what to do with that bonus check. Maybe that "special person" said the one thing you love to hear, yet you held back. Something gave you Motivation to keep going with your day. You are thinking about it over and over and pondering what it all meant. 

People ask me all the time. What motivates you to keep helping people. What's your purpose? It's me. Truly me. Now don't take that as selfish. If you have read our blogs you would understand why. 

Why am I the reason to get up? I want to LIVE! I want to SHARE! I want to LOVE! I want to HOPE. You must love YOU! If you don't love you, then you cannot love others. Many of us throughout the world suffer from many ailments. Ailments you don't see, hear of, even know of. Many of you judge performance without knowing that just maybe that person is over worked and stressed out. Could be as such, and it could be so much more. 

My husband and I work to Help Other People Evolv, HOPE. There is always something good in someone. Find it. It's there. Don't judge a book by its cover, and from the words of Pharrell, "take away all those people out of the picture, and who would I be?" "Id be the kid from Virginia." He explains how his Grandma was his motivator. How his music teachers where his inspiration. He is his purpose. Yet he doesn't allow that to overwhelm him. He looks at all those who helped him, and he's grateful everyday. So, laugh at his hat, laugh at his style. Yet he's humble, and he knows what his Motivator and Purpose is. 

Evolv is based on you! What is your commitment to purpose and motivation to better health and better wealth? We are hear to help. If you are struggling daily with pain, stress, energy, weight, fibromyalgia, migraines, etc.... You need to contact us. Find your Motivator, and your Purpose. They are not the same. It's a compliment to each other equaling YOU!