Thursday, September 5, 2013

Who Motivates You?

As I was sitting today, getting my nails done and my toenails done. Relaxing in the massage chair. I realized that my husband is who motivates me the most. 

I know that I'm newly married. I know that everyone is going to say, "oh that's just love talking." What no one knows? I have loved this man for 24 years. It just took us a little longer to figure out that we are suppose to be together. Him with one failed marriage. Myself with 2 failed marriages. The reality was that we loved each other so much, yet what took us so long. 

I have always been a person to never "need" a man. However, my husband is by my side even when he does get upset over things I try to work hard at. He may blow up here and there. Yet, he's still right there in the end. 

My husband has always been a man to workout daily. I noticed that he quit all that, 2 years after we started living together. I have wondered why for a while. Just never asked, until a month ago. His statement? "I just put my all into you in making sure you are cared for." Wow! That just made me cry. I've never ever had a man, who thought so much about me, to give up something he loves for me. I asked him to go back to doing what he loves. It's his way of winding down from his day. I believe we all need something to wind us down. Not always a drink (alcohol) should be the answer. Just my thoughts, as I will be the first to say that I'm just as bad to say, "where's the beer." After a long day of havoc. 

I had done BodyBiVi over a year ago. I lost 30 pounds in 30 days. Way before the 90 days was due. He noticed that, and now that I'm starting back. He wants to know what's motivating me to do this again. I told him. "My love for you, and the desire to be healthier and stronger, so that I can live with him longer. So that we can enjoy a beautiful life together, and grow older together, and not apart." He started to cry, as well as I.

We are ready to take this journey. Our journey will have it's ups and downs. As well as when you say "I Do". Marriage is what you both endure and compromise is what keeps you together with the knowing that in the end. With sheet determination and the motivation of each other. All is possible. 

I run two businesses now. BeautiControl and BodyBiVi. I also work full time as a nurse. If anyone needs to stay fit? It's the nursing field! Why? Because you can let the company take you to a level you don't like, or you can work your way to staying fit with stamina some how. Believe me when I say this. I'm always asked. Why do nurses get fat? It's all about the person. What's motivating them to leave work and stay healthy. Sometimes? Most the time? We are so tired that we just find comfort in food. Not what we should do. And obesity is a major issue in nursing. Millions of deaths a year due to obesity. Why? It doesn't have to be that way. 

So I ask. Who is your motivation? Find out what or who motivates you. I would love to be a motivation for someone. I want to show you that even though I'm in remission from cancer, and I have early stage CHF, as well as bone and blood disorders and no immune system. I'm a fighter. You can be too! You just need a push. So, how can I help 3 people to start? How I can I show you or tell you that BodyBiVi is what your next step is?

I'm looking for 3 people to take the challenge with me. To speak with weekly, daily, whatever it takes to help them to take control back over their life. You can easily go to my website, and see others that have met their goals, and continue with the Balance kit to keep their own life in control, yet are enjoying life to the fullest. Are you ready? 

If you are. Then click into my site. Setup your date to start. You can ask me questions, or tell me your story. I'm always here for group. Right now, I'm motivating my daughter and son. My husband is motivating me. It's all about when, not if. 

Watch our story daily. As I show you how we are progressing. Our weekly weigh ins will be on Fridays. We will post pics, and show you how this is all possible. You can set yourself up to start on your own date. Don't wait too long. Another day of finding comfort in food only adds to the deterioration of your health, and another statistic to the obesity data. Don't be a part of that data. Be the one who showed others that it is all possible in life. To live, love and laugh. 

Have a good night. Sleep well, and think about how you can make a difference in you, your family, and your friends. 


Cheap Or Worth It

When I was younger I worried more about keeping my youth. I can remember in 5th grade. I had a friend that couldn't understand why I would buy "cheap" makeup... I can remember laughing while she would just go on and on about her $20 foundation. It was noticeable how she had been taught to think. That was ok. I had problems, at times with Acne, and didn't want one area to pit my face. So, I was more into skin care. Always making sure I had the best in skin care. Today? That friend is still on top with everything.

I'm using the best of the best! Americas #1 Beauty Brand. I know now why she always used the best. She didn't have a problem with her makeup being imperfect. I no longer have that concern. My makeup comes off when I take it off. If that's the next day? It's still on as if I had just placed it on. 

Not only does my foundation have Retinol, with firming all day long. It heals areas that need healing while on my face. If I'm going to be out for the day/night? I simply place on my Shadow Control, and my eyes look perfect all day. I have bags under my eyes for a night of partying? Simply place on my Nourishing pads, lay back in bed for 15min, and then place Under Eye Dark Circle on, and puffiness and Dark Circles are gone. 

If I want to go with a Nude look? I just place on my Extreme TFF Foundation, Shadow Control, and Spectaculash Nourish/Black Mascara. 5min and I'm done. Ready for work, and professional. 

If I really wanted to look 41 at this age, that I am. I would have kept using the cheap makeup from the store. I would have only focused on the skin care. With BeautiControl, I can have it all. I can have great overall skin, and long lasting/all day makeup wear, with either a sweet smell of Sugar, or a Sexy (male & female). 

Even though its simple to go to Wal-Mart, Target, or Dillard's to get your makeup and skin care. Are you receiving the results you want? Or the results that my clients receive? 

It's always about what you can afford. Or what makes you happy. If you want what you want. That's understandable. If you want better, longer lasting, and the most for your value. Then our products are for you. 

I love helping people. I enjoy being with people that desire to find out who they are, or what they want to become. I want everyone to be who they are. Not something outside themselves. That's the joy of BeautiControl. Be You! 



90 Days and Counting

This morning our family did their weigh in. We all went our ways this morning. I have a few things to pick up. Things to add (healthy) to the meals they would like like to have with their shakes. Vegetables, and fruits, yogurts... All easy items to retrieve. 

They are all, as all I, deciding how much weight they want to lose. Jars are set up and decorated with "Pounds to lose", and "Lost Weight".... Everyone is excited! 

With that said. Everyone has their own bottle of Sculpt & Firm, and Firming Spray. As a family, we sat down and worked out times to apply the Sculpt & Firm and Firming Spray, since it has energy boosters in them. 

Our first post will go up tomorrow morning. We cannot wait to get people to join us, and start a healthy revolution. You don't have to give up everything to this program. There are cereals, to give you the morning breakfast you love, it just is not as fattening, and not full of calories to add fat. It's to give you lean muscle.  So, if you want your breakfast, have some BodyBiVi Cereal, and a 1/2 shake. Morning made, and weight loss with lean muscle. Why not. 

Need a snack? I've got the cookies. Yes! My kids always like to snack. Not on all good things either. Now? There are no other ways, but the healthy way. 

Adding the Sculpt & Firm and Firming Spray allows you to have an extra boost of energy, while reducing cellulite and fatty deposits and firming up that skin as you lose weight, or lean up.

It's an awesome day! It's so much fun to do this with a friend, family, or the determination of your own. You have nothing to lose... But weight! 

Find your motivation. It's inside you. Search yourself, and now that your either healthy or not. We are either happy as we are, and that's GREAT! I promote loving who you are. Some of us really just want note from ourselves. Some of us have health issues and we know we just need to do something. So, I ask again. What's your motivation. 

This program is simple! Simply decide what kind of shake you want to drink that day. What meal your going to replace. Remember, doesn't have to be the same everyday. You can change things up. There are recipes to make different shakes. There are recipes to make cookies and meals with the shake. This is a never get bored with losing weight program. 

Determination is set by you. If you know that you are more motivated by a friend? Then by all means. Do it together. If you are more of a person that's determined to make it work for you by your ability to stand alone? I say go for it! 

Join our mission. To scale down the ratio of obesity. I see people come in daily to my work, and they just have no clue how their bad habits in eating, placed them in the situation they are in today. It's interesting to listen to them and their denial. 

We can change all that. Especially for our current generation and the future of those.  Are you ready?